No single sign means a child has dyslexia, and no one shows every sign. But a cluster of these indicators — especially alongside a family history of reading struggles — is worth paying attention to. Here’s what to watch for by age.

Preschool (ages 3–5)

  • Late talking, or slow to build vocabulary
  • Trouble learning nursery rhymes or recognizing rhyming words
  • Difficulty learning letter names and their sounds
  • Frequently mixing up similar-sounding words

Early elementary (ages 6–8)

  • Slow, effortful sounding-out of simple words
  • Guessing words from the first letter or a picture instead of decoding
  • Confusing letters (b/d) or small words (was/saw)
  • Spelling the same word several different ways on one page
  • Avoiding reading — sometimes with tears or stomachaches at homework time

Older children & teens (ages 9–17)

  • Reading below grade level, slowly and with visible effort
  • Avoiding reading aloud or reading for pleasure
  • Ongoing trouble with spelling and written expression
  • Strong listening comprehension but weak reading comprehension
  • Taking far longer on reading homework than classmates

Adults

  • Avoiding reading- or writing-heavy tasks
  • Reading slowly and re-reading to understand
  • Persistent spelling difficulties
  • Leaning on memory, audio, and other workarounds

A key pattern to notice

Dyslexia tends to look like an unexpected gap — a capable, articulate person whose reading doesn’t match the rest of their abilities.

If several of these ring true, it doesn’t mean something is wrong with your child — it means their brain may learn to read along a different path. The good news is that path is very teachable. A free consult is a low-pressure way to talk it through and decide on a sensible next step.